Alright I'm coming to the point now. I call myself stuck up when I'm in two minds. I say to myself that I have to be strong and the next moment I question myself how can I be strong? I pen down a bucket list and take a resolution that I will surely accomplish the bucket list tasks as scheduled, just then I feel that's a crazy thought of a lazy girl and chuck it again. I go into my balcony to enjoy the evening view with a steaming cup of tea, praise the weather, admire the breeze and all of a sudden I get upset with the weather because the breeze isn't cool enough. Now please don't think am weird. I already told you that am crazy :P
The thing that stings me now is a long distance relationship. People say it doesn't work out. There are many who say it will definitely work out. I'm stuck in the middle because I really don't know if it will work out or not. You can ask me why am I bothered. I have a silly but fascinating answer to it. There's a inspirational speaker who takes classes for us. In his lecture one day he mentioned that on an average 50-60 thousand thoughts cross a person's brain per day. As even I belong to this category of humans this strange thought crossed my mind today.
Every question has an answer is what I believe. When I started to analyze the pros and cons of a long distance relationship I realized that distance is not something that can give an end to your relationship. Its purely lack of trust & time. When two people stay together for a really long time sharing every minute detail of their life, spending time, staying in contact 24*7 are parted by a distance of thousands of kilometers there is a lot of stuff that can possibly go wrong.
Firstly the time zone effects you. Your morning can be your partners night and vice versa. There might be times when you look at the moon and get upset as you had long conversations with your partner in the same moon light. Ironically now you don't even share the same moonlight. That's what distance does to you. It makes you sad.
Secondly sometimes you might even get inferior wondering what might happen if you don't get in contact with your partner for a long time. Negative thoughts take over the positivity you possess. I would suggest you to take your space and give your partner enough space and encourage them to cope up in the new surroundings.
In this era of whatsapp (emails are long gone) there's always a chance to get in touch (unless you lack network coverage). When you love a person expect the least. Love always comes with a tagline of "No expectations".
Believe in your love. Have trust on your partner. Have faith in them. If you ever feel worried do what Aamir khan says "Dil pe haath rakhe bolo- ALL IZZ WELL". You might not overcome your problem but you will surely get enough strength to pass through it. No matter how hard you try it's all a game of destiny. "It's your choice whether you follow your destiny or create your destiny".
Love is in the air guys and girls. Live every moment like you don't have the next.