I'm from a very conservative family. On a general basis girls are called dad's princess but how many of them are treated that way? You gotta call yourself lucky if you get the i'm-a-princess kind of treatment because I don't get what you get. Probably conservative is not the right word to describe my family. My dad decides for me and I have no other option than accepting the fact. At times I feel like screaming at the top of my voice and say to them "I'm not an animal to be tamed or trained". I'm a human with feelings.
Self confidence is something that keeps your life on a normal track.
Well I must say I feel like am getting low on that. Any parent can point out the mistakes their child makes, on the contrary my parents call everything I do as a mistake. I tried convincing them hell lot of times but ended up being asked to shut my mouth. Had I been a boy I wouldn't be getting this treatment is what my brain forces me to ponder upon.
One fine day things got even more worse. My dad said "As long as you stay in my house you have no other option than to follow what I say, once your married you have no other option than to follow what your husband says". I'm not clay that can be molded according to anyone's choices. I do have feelings. I feel alive when I write. I see no point in explaining this to my parents. If the only way I can be happy is by writing, I will follow my passion. If keeping this as a secret from my parents is going to be the best thing am ready to do even that.
I have just one piece of advice. "Do something your passionate about. Build a career in that. People today may question you "why do you want to do it" but once you succeed they are going to ask you "how did you do it". If you have to fight then get ready. The game is on."